Exceeding your own expectations.

 I had such a beautiful conversation with Josiah today and it was about our desire to tap into our internal power source more. When you go through a lot, it can be so easy to lose faith in your ability to thrive. 


I remember this one time that I was on the rugby pitch playing in a game against another team and I was playing as a winger. Despite the fact that I’d played most of the game and had been absolutely fine throughout it, I ended up pleading my coach to come off as I had a strong cramp in one of my legs. 


We paused the game so that I could sort out the cramp in my left leg but after it went from the left it transferred to the right leg. My coach, having the utmost faith in me, told me to push through as we were in the last minutes. I stood up with the little strength I had, managed to turnover the ball which was in the opposite side’s possession and immediately scored a try.


I will never forget that moment. It felt like an actual movie. Whenever I ponder on that memory, I’m reminded of pushing harder at the point I feel like I’m at my weakest.



“Excellence is a direct result of an extra effort.” - Gift Gugu Mona


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